Where are the single people? || 单身狗都去哪儿了？

S.R and A.R. have been married for 11 years and have 3 young children. Here is what they have to say:

S.R和A.R.已经结婚11年，育有3个年幼的孩子。他们是这么说的:

The best answer is to pray and wait. I would also want to know how you are defining “suitable” and ask you to pray about having reasonable expectations about appearance, money or status – if that is weighing heavily into your thinking. You need to be attracted to that person and they need to love God and treat you well, but besides that, there also might be trade-offs where all of your boxes for a potential partner are not checked off. And practically, you can sometimes remain in your current fellowship group but find activities with other believers around your area. There might be others near you who are like-minded but you don’t know them yet.

最好的答案是祷告和等候。我还想知道你是如何定义“适合”的，也想让你为对方的外貌、金钱或地位有合理的期望而祷告——如果你认为这些都很重要的话。你需要被那个人吸引，那个人要爱神，要善待你，但除此之外，对于潜在伴侣没能完全满足的那些条件，你也可能要做一些权衡取舍。实际上，有时你可以待在目前的团契小组，也可以和你周围的其他信徒一起参加活动。或许你身边就有一些志同道合的人，只是你还不认识他们