Putting the broken pieces back together again || 破镜重圆

R.H. has been a Christian for 32 years, formerly married and ever-growing. Here is what he has to say:

R.H.已经信主32年，曾经结过婚，他的属灵生命一直在成长。他是这么说的:

This can simply take time, there is no need to rush it. The healing is done when the healing is done. Don’t dwell on it but learn from it. Don’t waste the pain for it can be an incredible teacher. Seek healthy counsel and comfort from friends and Christian community. Look to the future.

这需要时间，不需要着急。受伤的心终将平复。 不要一直停留在过去， 要从中学习。 不要浪费这份痛苦因为它可做良师益友。向朋友和zhu内团体寻求明智的建议和安慰，展望未来。

 

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L.P. and his wife have a cross-cultural marriage have been married for 9 years with two young sons. Here is what he has to say:

L.P.和妻子属于跨文化婚姻，他们已经结婚9年，育有2个年幼的儿子。他是这么说的:

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Psalms 34:18 NIV

“yehehua靠近伤心的人，拯救灵性痛悔的人“ 诗篇34:18

Sometimes a broken heart is God’s way of slowing us down enough to hear his voice. When we take the pieces of our heart and give them back to him, he puts them back together in a way that is more whole and more interesting than it was before it was broken. And sometimes a broken heart is because we chose something in direct defiance of what we knew was right. In that case, confess it, repent, and don’t do it again.

有时候，一颗破碎的心是Shangdi让我们放慢脚步， 倾听衪声音的方式。 当我们把破碎的心交给衪， 衪会把它们重组起来， 让它们比破碎前更完整， 更有趣。有时候， 心碎是因为一些明知是正确的事而我们直接选择了违抗它。 在这种情况下，要忏悔，悔改，不要再犯。

 

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S.R and A.R. have been married for 11 years and have 3 young children. Here is what they have to say:

S.R和A.R.已经结婚11年，育有3个年幼的孩子。他们是这么说的:

Practice putting words to it. In prayer, in journaling or with trusted friends. Describe the meaning of loss or disappointment, but also describe physically how the hurt feels in your body. Use the Psalms as an example in how to express the hurt to the Lord and plead with him to give you comfort and allow you to move on.

练习用语言表达出来，在daogao中， 在日记里或跟信任的朋友。 陈述失去或失望的意义，但也要描述你身体上所感觉到的伤害。 以诗篇为例， 怎样向shen表达你的伤痛， 恳求衪的安慰， 让你能继续前行。

 

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R.G. and her husband have been married for 7 years and have one young boy and one baby on the way! Here is what she has to say:

R.G.和丈夫已经结婚7年，育有一个小男孩和一个即将出生的孩子！她是这么说的:

Bring your broken heart and hurt to God, pray and tell God all your true feelings. And if you have trustworthy friend, share with them, pray together for God’s healing and strength to forgive the who one who brought hurt to you.

把你破碎的心和伤痛带到shen面前， 通过daogao告诉shen你真实的感受。 如果你有值得信赖的朋友， 跟他分享， 一起daogao， 寻求shen的医治和大能，去原谅那些伤害过你的人。